Learn Your Lover

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Learning someone can be hard!

What do you ask? How do you learn someone so completely different from you and how you were raised. This is probably the fastest way to loose your patience. LEARNING is such a fundamental aspect in opening yourself up and allowing life to enter your universe. 

 

|| I Challenge You || 

  • Start asking the RIGHT questions: it’s ok if you haven’t asked the right questions in the past, you can still take back control of your questions and redirect them for the benefit of your relationship.
  • You can start by making a bulletin of what things you want to learn about them in level of priority. 
  • Favorite colors and interesting foods are cute! But let’s take it up a notch!
  • Dig deeper... such as background, childhood, and experiences.
  • Leave a sticky note of a question in their car and see how they find the answers to respond back to you. 
  • Or simply have a “I ask you answer” date for the both of you.